Susan Shepherd's talk, "A Leader Among Men" is available on the Heritage Presbytery Women's Ministry website at http://www.heritagewomen.org/media/. She gave it on Friday evening March 24, 2017, at Cornerstone Presbyterian Church in Landenberg, PA. This pre-conference talk kicked off the 2017 Heritage Presbytery Women's Conference.
Although the talk was prepared with women ministry leaders and wives of pastors, elders and deacons in mind, the principles are true for everyone. It's well worth an hour of your time.